Everyone will have their own path through their unique brush with dementia. None will have a carbon copy of someone else\u2019s experience. Dementia hits folks and impacts relationships in manifold ways. But we can still encourage others through what we have learned in our unique situations. I am hoping to have guest writers on this blog to deal with dementia problems I have not witnessed, thinking mainly of those whose loved ones became violent and angry in their dementia. So keep tuned: that\u2019s in the works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In this post, I want to stress how important it is to share your story, to help others not feel so alone, to give them ideas for coping with their situations. The most beautiful depiction of that I found in a surprise reading of a random part of the Bible not long ago. Have any of you heard of the \u201cPools of Baca\u201d? I hadn\u2019t, though have been a bible-reading Christian since 1982. The subject is found in Psalm 84 as follows. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psalm 84<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As I reflected on that, I have become quite excited as I see it coming together:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We are setting our hearts on pilgrimage as we set out in our lives to be all God wants us to be in the hills and valleys of our journey. We know it\u2019s going to be hard [that\u2019s life!], but we know God is strengthening us, will walk with us, will glorify Himself through our walk. We need not fear. He has already told us we will \u201cface trials of many kinds\u201d [check out the book of James<\/em><\/strong> in the Bible!] but has told us to persevere and work through those trials so we can be all He wants us to be. He says He will give us wisdom for each trial\u2026as we ask Him and believe He is giving that to us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And the stories we\u2019ll have throughout our journey will glorify Him. Each difficulty in that \u201cValley of Baca\u201d will become a pool from our tears, which turns into a spring of blessing to others. How so? Well, I think God uses each difficulty to show us we are not alone\u2014for He walks beside us, comforts us, strengthens us, gives us victory. And each of those difficulties in that Valley will also become a pool from which OTHERS can find refreshment and blessing as THEY benefit from the experiences we share with them–experiences of God strengthening us in manifold trials, giving us wisdom, encouragement, guidance, help, perseverance and blessing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n All this is summed up in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4: \u201cPraise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.\u201d That\u2019s a lot of comfort! And it is meant to be shared.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Everyone will have their own path through their unique brush with dementia. None will have a carbon copy of someone else\u2019s experience. Dementia hits folks and impacts relationships in manifold ways. But we can still encourage others through what we have learned in our unique situations. I am hoping to have guest writers on this …<\/p>\n